Showing posts with label Advent. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Advent. Show all posts

Sunday, November 30, 2014

How to Have an Excellent Advent: Seven Suggestions

What's the purpose of Advent? Click on the video below to check out Busted Halo's 2 minute take on this season of preparation for Christmas: 

Each of the suggestions below is a link to a blog post on the topic:

    1. Stay Awake 






7. Wait Patiently   

What is God calling you to this Advent that will bring you closer to Him? 

Thursday, December 12, 2013

Christmas Merry-Making Mishaps Series Entry # 4 Nativity Set

An Accidental Loss of Jesus

A friend of mine I have known since we both attended fifth grade at St. Mary’s School and who also attended Tucker High School with me, asked me to photograph her wedding.  For a number of years, this friend had been studying and doing research in Burundi.  To support local merchants there, she purchased a number of things, including her wedding dress and jewelry from local weavers and artisans.  As a thank you for shooting their wedding in Charlottesville, she presented Kevin and me with a beautiful hand-carved dark wood Nativity set from Burundi.
    
The trouble is we’ve lost Jesus.  I know it sounds really awful, because it is.  Every other hand-carved piece of our Nativity set I had carefully packed up in tissue paper and put in the big Rubbermaid box with lid containing all of our Advent and Christmas items has been recovered.  Mary, Joseph, an ox and a lamb are all together waiting for the three wise men and two shepherds to arrive, but the reason for the season is missing. 
   
There’s a small babe lying in a manger, my guess would be somewhere in our office, which is hands-down the messiest, most cluttered area in our whole place.  Kevin and I are hoping Jesus will surface by Christmas.  We would certainly consider it a Christmas miracle.

A Note about my Christmas Merrymaking Mishaps Series I’m not sure about you, but my family and friends have had some rather amusing and entertaining incidents that have occurred when engaging in some very popular holiday traditions such as: Christmas CarolingCookie DecoratingChristmas Tree selection, and Nativity set-up.

Friday, December 6, 2013

7 Quick Takes Friday (Vol. 131) The Sounds of Music, Family Traditions, & Advent Advice


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Grace is…looking at someone and having a glimpse of how lovable they are in God’s eyes,  receiving a long-awaited message from a friend, a wonderful surprise that warms your heart, coming home to find an Advent wreath on the table and a little Christmas tree lit on the half-wall, crystal clear reminders that some people still do focus on Jesus as the reason for this season with beautiful results and witness to others, family traditions enjoyed by several generations…  
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The Sound of Music LIVE Unreasonable expectations abound when it comes to the groundbreaking three hour performance of The Sound of Music LIVE on NBC December 5, 2013.  I grew up watching The Sound of Music, and of course Carrie Underwood isn't Julie Andrews, but she and that cast did a decent made-for-TV LIVE version of a classic Broadway musical made movie that can't be matched.  There are a number of reviews floating around, but this is the article that seems most accurate of the ones I’ve read.
     Not even Carrie Underwood thought she could be a modern day Julie Andrews.  One of the qualities of classic, famous films is that the parts are played so well by those chosen for those roles that you can’t imagine anyone else doing it better.  If you tuned in last night to see if Carrie Underwood would put in a performance as perfectly fitting, amazing, and endearing as Julie Andrews did, then in my opinion, you just don’t get it...Read the rest here.


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How Do You Solve a Problem Like…? Last evening when my mom came over to watch The Sound of Music LIVE with Kevin and me, she brought me a wonderful gift.  Without explanation, she handed me a magazine called Religious Life and told me to turn to page 26.  I was delighted when I did as I was told and came upon a photo with my dear friend, Michele Morris, looking radiant in white and brown.  My mom had come across the publication that has a picture of the Discalced Carmelites by the Sea in its November/December 2013 issue and surprised me with it.  Of the ten women in the photo, Michele is by far the youngest, though all of them have a joyful glow about them. 

     I couldn’t resist laughing at the irony of my mom giving me this publication with a picture of Michele in it on the very evening when The Sound of Music LIVE aired.  Back in July, when Michele’s mother and I were helping her get the props out of her vehicle for her final performance of her original play “Teresita,” Michele was off greeting people who had come for the show.  Looking at the social butterfly making her rounds, Michele’s mom and I suddenly burst into a fitting song for the occasion: “How Do You Solve a Problem Like Maria?”
     Michele is indeed well-suited to the contemplative life, a true prayer warrior, obedient to God's Will though she’s also been great center-stage as an actress and the life of the party.  It warms my heart to see her so joyful where God has called her to be.  
     We miss you, think of you often, and pray for you always, Michele!

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7 Tips for an Excellent Advent I wrote this series of Advent posts inspired by seven brief suggestions for how to observe this holy season a couple years ago when my grandmother was still living and our dear friends/siblings in Christ John and Michele were residing in Richmond.  (My grandmother passed away January 31 of this year.  John is in his second year of seminary at St. Mary's in Baltimore, Maryland, and Michele entered the Carmelite Sisters by the Sea this past August).  
     The same lessons apply this year as they have in the past.  
1.      Stay Awake
3.      Hold on to Hope
4.      Celebrate the Season
5.      Rejoice and Be Glad
7.      Wait Patiently

What has been the hardest of the above 7 tips for you to follow this Advent?  Has that been true in the past as well.  How is God nudging you to a deeper understanding of this season and Christ’s Incarnation?



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Fresh Bread The whole grain taste of Fresh Bread is certainly one that can provide ample food for thought and considerable spiritual nourishment throughout the year.  Fresh Bread and Other Gifts of Spiritual Nourishment by Joyce Rupp, OSM is beautifully written, engaging, intimate, vulnerable, and honest.  From a place of humility and brokenness, the beauty of God’s love shines through her poetry, prose, prayers, and provocative questions with a quiet, gentle intensity that seeps into the soul…Read the complete review here.
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Here We Come A’Caroling A neighborhood friend and I decided one year when we were around eleven years old, that we were going to practice singing some Christmas carols, then take our show on the road, or more realistically around our cul-de-sac off of River Road in Richmond.  Our confidence and jubilation wavered considerably when the first woman whose doorbell we rang heard us start singing.  She gave us a very strange look and tried to close the door before we were through one verse of our well-rehearsed repertoire of songs.  
     It wasn’t until later that my friend and I found out that the neighbor is Jewish, and therefore not as likely to enjoy our impromptu Christmas caroling performance on her steps.  For all she knew, someone had put us up to it, knowing she was Jewish.  I doubt it occurred to her that we were just unlucky enough that we would pick her house to start with.  But the truth is, we were that unfortunate.  
     Stay-tuned, I will soon be posting more Christmas merry-making mishaps in days to come.  Shocking though it may be, we’ve managed to rack up quite a few.
    
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Cherished Family Christmas Traditions We’ve created and maintained a number of traditions over the years that we continue to uphold today.  I take comfort in the traditions to keep us connected to family members who are no longer with us (namely my dad and Grandma) and in an effort to welcome and induct the youngest, cutest members of the clan (our nine month old nephew).  Here’s the first round of what we do, and here’s the second list
     What are your family's favorite Christmas traditions? 
                  
Check out Jen Fulwiler’s tradition of 7 Quick Takes Friday at her tremendously popular blog Conversion Diary.  

Friday, November 29, 2013

7 Quick Takes Friday (Vol. 130) Storytelling, Silly Songs, & the Cookie Caper Question

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Grace is…a delicious Thanksgiving feast shared with family, having my youngest sister home even for a brief visit, Mom’s homemade apple pie, wanting to be a better servant of the Lord, working at being more Christ-like by doing small things with great love, genuine encouragement and inspiration from those who love you, the sense to stay in on Black Friday, playing with your youngest nephew, the vulnerability it takes to be honest in kind and gentle ways…
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Thanksgiving Across the Years This Thanksgiving was a really nice one for Kevin and me.  We began the day by going to Mass to celebrate the ultimate feast, the Eucharist (the word literally means “thanksgiving”).  Later we headed over to my sister and brother-in-law’s house for the family meal and visiting.  The food was delicious and the quality time together very enjoyable!  To read about some of our past Thanksgiving adventures, mishaps, and traditions, click here.     

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It’s Your Fault! Yesterday, my sister and I broke into a song about rubber duckies that my mom used to sing to us when we were little.  My other sister and my mom looked at each other and made faces at us.  I elbowed my mom, and informed her: “It’s your fault!”  And really it is.  She’s the one who stayed home with us when we were little and sang to us, danced with us, read to us, played with us, and inspired a love for little people that she passed on to each one of us.  
     The song my sister and I were singing is from Sesame Street.  You might recognize it.
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10 Facts about Advent I happened upon this article the other day, and it’s a great starting point for remembering what Advent is about.  Here’s a hint: it has nothing at all to do with the craziness of Black Friday, but is an important precursor to Christmas and the prelude to Good Friday.  The actual Advent wreath that Kevin and I have and will be putting out this weekend is a very special one that was made by a friend of ours who is hardcore about spreading hope.   

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Run that by me again! Sunshine has a very active imagination.  Sometimes, I’m not sure right away if she’s telling me about something that has actually happened or if it’s another one of her pretend stories.  Either way, I try to listen closely and follow along.  Not too long ago, she told me that her grandma and grandpa don’t like rabbits, so she doesn’t either.  I had no way of verifying that, but since her grandparents do have a farm, I deduced it was at least possible.  This week, she was a good two minutes into her story before I figured out that we were in a real world with real people fairy tale.  What tipped me off?  Suddenly she was the one driving mommy and daddy’s van to go find her mom, who had left her at school while she went to Walmart.    

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Last Night Kids concept of time is amusing.  Lately, Sunshine typically begins and/or ends each of her stories with “last night.”  This has occasionally helped me in the department of distinguishing fact from fiction, though, with her it can be a very convincing mix of the two.  Knowing that her parents had trouble with the minivan’s alarm going off by itself, I was incredibly impressed when in subsequent weeks, she spun a very animated, action-packed, high adrenalin story about a school bus needing to be fixed and babies crying because of a loud alarm that went off when a battery died.  Kevin was visiting us at the time and got to witness this based on a real life event story, and we were both amused and awed.  Just remember, your children are always recording audio and video whether you want them to or not.
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The Cookie Caper Question I have a tendency to take things personally and assume that people think the worst of me.  Here’s a hypothetical situation that closely resembles my line of thinking: If Kevin were to ask me why cookies were being stolen from the cookie jar in a household of three or more individuals all capable of reaching the container, I would typically assume that he was informing me of a problem while at the same time accusing me of stealing the cookies and/or blaming me for not having a better system for keeping track of the baked goods in question even if this wasn’t at all his intent or line of thinking.  (Truth be told, I do find it very difficult to resist the urge to consume baked goodies when they are left out or easily accessible.) 
     Like most people, I prefer to be informed of a problem and asked questions rather than immediately accused of being the culprit when I’m just as likely a suspect as the next person.  If the cookies have some type of chocolate in them, it might be most efficient and also highly likely to assume that I have been one of the people responsible for the disappearance and consumption of some of the cookies.  Though it would be unfair and presumptuous to believe that I am the only guilty party involved in the case of the missing cookies, it isn’t unjust, given my appreciation for goodies, to think that I’m among the likely suspects…

     I hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving and that you are willing to share your holiday baked goods with whoever comes to call this Advent and Christmas.                  
Check out Jen Fulwiler’s tradition of 7 Quick Takes Friday at her tremendously popular blog Conversion Diary



Friday, December 21, 2012

7 Quick Takes Friday (Vol. 81)



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Christmas Card Cop-out I would like to say a sincere thanks to all of you who sent us Christmas cards! You didn't receive one from us this year not because we don't love you, but because I decided to try and maintain my sanity and a prayerful spirit while Kevin and I have lot going on right now. In other words consider yourself, loved, hugged, and prayed for!   

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Traditions from the Niermeyers There are three pieces that make up the holiday tradition must-do things for our family: 1.) certain Christmas music 2.) decorating the family Tree 3.) making Christmas cookies.  We really get into these three traditions every year, click here for details and a few photos.
           
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Wisdom from White Christmas which it’s our family’s tradition to watch each year.  I wrote this reflection Fall Asleep Counting Your Blessings a few years ago when we didn’t do many of our usual traditions and how they played out for us that Advent season.   

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Teeth R Movin’ This has been an interesting couple of weeks for teeth in the under 3 age bracket of the household where I nanny.  The twins both have their two front bottom teeth starting to peek through their gums the same week when their older sister had to have her top two front teeth removed.  Though it’s made me think of the song “All I Want For Christmas Is My Two Front Teeth,” I’m not sure it actually applies to any of them at the moment.  Cutting teeth is painful, but having them pulled is not too fun either.  Hopefully the tooth fairy will also bring something nice for the girls’ mommy and daddy this weekend.       

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Remembering Loved Ones Lost I’ve had some dreams about my dad this week.  In one of them, there was a period of time within the dream that I thought my dad was still alive, though he had already died even (in the dream).  Thinking of him along with family and friends who have lost loved ones more recently always reminds me to pray extra for those mourning those dear to them, especially this time of year.  Of course, all of those affected by the recent tragedy in Newtown, Connecticut, will be in our hearts and prayers this year.    

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No Family, No Celebration A Christian friend texted me this week to check in and see how Kevin and I were doing.  Talk about a humbling experience, this busy single mom (of a 14 month old little boy who’s super cute!) works full-time and lives a few hours away from us, and she's the one who takes the time to reach out to us to see how things are going.  (Major guilt enter stage right and left.) I asked her what she was doing for Christmas.  She said she has to work Christmas day, and that since she has no family in this country, she usually doesn’t do anything special to celebrate.  How sad is that.  Not sure if Kevin and I will be able to go see them sometime soon, but we’ll certainly be sending something to help them celebrate Christ’s birth and God’s love!  If you know someone without family nearby, try to include them in what you're doing and/or do something special with them between now and New Year's.

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My Audition Piece Over the past eleven days, when I haven’t been chasing little ones or running errands, I’ve been feverishly rereading, taking notes, on the first four books in a YA series, and working on an audition piece I will be sending within the week to a group of authors who are actively seeking a fourth writer for their series of Young Adult novels.  The cool thing is that I’ll be working with them either way as a copy editor (though I’d really love to be the fourth writer, too!)  Your prayers would be much appreciated please and thanks!   
  
Head over to Conversion Diary, to read Jen Fulwiler's wonderful tradition of 7 Quick Takes Friday.

Monday, December 10, 2012

Magnificat Year of Faith Companion


     I have been a fan of the Magnificat publications for many years.  I have found the monthly magazine a wonderful guide to Catholic prayer that gives the feel of the Liturgy of the Hours without its complexity or multiple volumes. 
     The Magnificat monthly magazines were absolutely indispensable for me when I was studying abroad in France, because I was able to follow along with the readings at Mass, had the words in front of me to the prayers I knew only in English before then.  I am certain using the Magnificat in French dramatically improved my appreciation for the language as well as the nuances and multiple translations of prayers that are possible. 
     I knew I would like the Magnificat Year of Faith Companion, but knowing that the regular monthly publication already contains a number of prayers, the daily Mass readings, reflections on the readings and information about the saints, I wondered what this magazine would add to the mix.  I am pleased to report that this book is indeed a beautiful way to “rediscover the joy of believing” as Pope Benedict XVI put it. 
     Scripture reflection, prayers, meditations, original poetry, essays on the faith, devotions, and explanations of the Catechism are what you will find in this daily boost for your faith.  Each day there’s something different to ponder, and perhaps share with others.  The variety of writers and myriad of genre included guarantee a blend of insights, outlooks, and perspectives that will deepen your understanding of the faith and richly enhance your prayer time.         
     I wrote this review of for the Magnificat Year of Faith Companion as part of the free Catholic book review program.
     Tiber River is the first Catholic book review site, started in 2000 to help you make informed decisions about Catholic book purchases.  I receive free product samples as compensation for writing reviews for Tiber River.

Sunday, December 2, 2012

Advent: What are we waiting for?


In pondering the purpose of Advent, to prepare our hearts to receive the Lord Jesus Christ, I’m glad we have a designated period of time in which we’re invited to delve back into the mystery of the Incarnation, the devotion and grace of Mary’s yes and Joseph’s, too. 
    
Participating in the Liturgy of the Word and the Liturgy of the Eucharist at Mass, setting extra time aside for quiet reflection and prayer, and meditating on the miracle of Christ being sent among us have remained the essential ingredients in my Advent preparation.
    
Another blessing that strikes my heart on a deeper level than is easy for me to describe adequately in words is holding a baby at this time of year.  It never ceases to stoke my sense of awe and amazement that the Lord would humble Himself in order to become the most vulnerable among us.  An infant is completely dependent on others for everything.  They are love and innocence itself.  It boggles my mind that the Lord would give us the gift of free will and let us exercise it in all areas of our lives. 
    
One of the aspects of Advent that I really appreciate is that there is so much love, trust, and mystery.    
     Seven Suggestions (and corresponding posts) for a Successful Advent:

1.      Stay Awake 

2.      Seek Him Who Seeks You 

3.      Hold on to Hope 

4.      Celebrate the Season 

5.      Rejoice and be Glad! 


7.      Wait Patiently 

Friday, December 23, 2011

7 Quick Takes Friday (Vol. 30)

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 Excellent Advent Advice Reflection Series
Part I: Stay Awake 
Part II: Seek Him Who Seeks You
Part III: Hold on to Hope
Part VI: Give the Gift of Quality Time I have found the gift I treasure most is that of quality time with loved ones. Add some yummy food, and the experience is downright delightful regardless of the weather! I’ve been very blessed to have several family and friends who have given the gift of their time to Kevin and me this holiday season…
Part VII: Wait Patiently  What are we really waiting for this week, this month, this year? Around the holidays, we are often made to wait. We wait in long lines to take advantage of a slew of sales, mail packages, purchase Christmas gifts, visit Santa, buy ingredients for holiday meals, and baking festive goodies…
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Christmas tree down in record time! As some of you may recall, it was only last Thursday that my family gathered at my mom’s house to decorate the Christmas tree.  Mom was concerned my sister Mary and I wouldn’t be happy that she and Theresa had gotten a different type of tree from the live ones we usually buy, but we were fine with it.  The tree looked pretty, as ours always have in previous years. 
     It turned out Mom was the only one who had trouble with the tree.  She’s apparently really allergic to Scotch Pines, so Wednesday night we had the second quickest ornament and tree removal ever for our family.  As misfortune would seem her lot, my mom exchanged the Scotch Pine for another tree at the lot, put it in the stand last night, and by 1:00am, was having trouble breathing, so she threw a coat on over her pajamas and dragged the thing out the door.  (Today she got an artificial tree, which we would consider almost sacrilegious if my poor Mom weren’t so allergic to all of the live ones she’s come across this year, at least from the lot where we usually get them.)
    
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Breaking tradition the hard way.  These are some Christmas traditions my sisters and I really enjoy: listening to Christmas music as early as my mom can get away with pulling it out, decorating the family tree, watching a certain line-up of Christmas movies, and making and decorating Christmas cookies.  Last Advent was certainly a change from the usual, with some nice added blessings. 
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Triage for our Christmas Card List In the event that you didn’t receive a Christmas card from Kevin and me this year, rejoice and be glad!  No, really.  I’ve decided this year to concentrate my card writing/mailing efforts first and foremost on family and friends of ours who 1.) are currently in the hospital 2.) were just released from the hospital after major surgery 3.) are serving in the US military overseas, and/or 4.) have lost a loved one in the past six months. 
     One reason for this is that I write a personal note on each card I send, so it takes much longer than the sign and stamp kind.  Since we have a number of loved ones who fit into one of the above categories, I’m concentrating my energy on prayers, phone calls, and notes of encouragement for them.  Please don’t be offended.  I assure you we’re keeping you in prayer.  Thanks to all of you who have filled our mailbox with love, adorable photos, and kind cards!   
   
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It’s Showtime!  Though this year, Kevin and I both missed out on the Christmas show at Little Sisters of the Poor where my grandma lives, we have fond memories from when we’ve attended in the past.  Actually, I can still remember the Christmas concert we did when I was in second grade, and we wore these tall cone-shaped Christmas tree hats and sang a song with the lyrics: “I’m gonna be Santa’s tree, so looky, looky, looky at me!”
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Jesus Christ is coming to town!  The theme of this year’s Glorious Christmas Nights show put on by the West End Assembly of God was Hold on to Hope. Kevin wasn’t feeling well, so my mom, John, and I were the ones who went to the show this go round.  As always, it was truly entertaining, great writing, funny, heartwarming, thought-provoking, and awe-inspiring! 
     I laughed uproariously during the modern part where they sang and danced to 70s disco music rewritten with Christian lyrics, and I was very amused by the Bethlehem shepherds’ musical number about how they hate sheep.   I love how they combine Christmases present with a flashback to the first Christmas, and then the spectacular finale of Christ’s Second Coming.  Of course, their performance of The Midnight Cry (always gives me chills-especially hearing so many hundreds of people singing it in person) is always one of my favorites. 
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Emmanuel, God with us!  I pray that you and your loved ones will experience the joy, peace, and love of the Lord flowing in and through you this Christmas as we celebrate the birth of Our Lord Jesus Christ. 
     I saw on a church message board: “Mary wrapped the first Christmas present.”  Indeed she did!  As you reflect on how small things done with great love can make a huge difference in someone's day, enjoy this video  which is a great, powerful reminder that love and compassion are far more powerful than lots of money in making a difference in someone’s life.

Head over to Conversion Diary, to read Jen Fulwiler's wonderful tradition of 7 Quick Takes Friday.

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

Excellent Advent Advice Part VII: Wait Patiently

What are we really waiting for this week, this month, this year? 
     
Around the holidays, we are often made to wait.  We wait in long lines to take advantage of a slew of sales, mail packages, purchase Christmas gifts, visit Santa, buy ingredients for holiday meals, and baking festive goodies.  I saw a number of people at the mall yesterday waiting for other people who were trying on clothes, shopping in yet another store, playing in the children’s play area, eating lunch, ringing people up in the check-out line, counting the minutes until they could go on break or just go home…
     
I know others who are waiting to be discharged from ICU, waiting for their deployment to end, waiting for grieving the loss of their loved ones to become easier, waiting for a family member’s conversion, waiting for a new job, waiting for a clearer answer from God as to what life-long vocation He’s calling them to, waiting for retirement, waiting to give birth, waiting for the pain to stop, waiting for an apology, waiting to hear I love you…
     
We are willing to wait the longest for whom and for what we yearn the most.  Are we waiting for our relationships to improve with our family? Our friends? Our Lord? 
     
You’ve likely heard about the Secret Santas who have waited in line to pay off part or almost all of the bill for items people have put on layaway at Kmart.  Waiting in line to pay someone else’s bill is certainly a charitable gift.  I imagine the individuals doing this aren’t exactly pushing and shoving to get up front, which is also a testimony to the beneficence at the root of this gesture.      
     
Can the deepest longing of our hearts be fulfilled by something from a store?  No.  The love we long for, the love that we need, only comes from the Lord.  He often works in and through other people to share His unconditional love for us, but He is the True Source of all love, mercy, peace, joy, gentleness, compassion, and kindness.   
     
Our dear brother in Christ sent me a link to the song “Where’s the Line to See Jesus?” by Becky Kelley.  It’s a thought-provoking video I listened to and watched a few times through. 
     
I had to ask myself who’s line am I in, anyway?  Would I be more inclined to wait in line for hours if that’s what it took to get the gift a loved one wanted most?  Would I wait as long as need be for the gift each heart yearns for most? 
    
The most important, life-changing line my husband and I stand in several times a week, is the line to receive the True Presence of our Lord in flesh and blood in the Most Holy Eucharist. 
     
For whom or what are you waiting?    Will your mind, body, and spirit be fed?  Will you be given the gifts of true peace and joy in time and eternity?  If not, there’s still time to get in the right line. 

Friday, December 16, 2011

7 Quick Takes Friday (Vol. 29)


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Being Truly Present Though we hear it over and over each year, that the time, love, and energy we share with others is most valuable, we so often get caught up in the consumerism and craziness that this time of year encourages in our world.  Don’t take the bait.  Check out this message and video for inspiration to stay focused on what truly matters most: God’s Presence and our presence.         

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Thanksgiving Redo As some of you may recall, Kevin and I managed to miss not one, not two, but three different Thanksgiving dinners this year because we were sick.  We have some wonderful friends who didn’t get to celebrate Turkey Day together with the traditional fare.  Laura and her husband Jeff hosted a Thanksgiving dinner at their home this past Monday evening that was absolutely delicious, positively delightful, and at times, downright hilarious.  Okay, so the food was delectable, but the company made for some unbridled laughter.  Thanks, God,  for friends who have become family! 

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Music, Signs, and Saying Goodbye Wednesday morning, I took Vivi to the daycare where Laura, a friend of mine I first met when I was in fifth grade at St. Mary School many years ago who now goes to the same parish we attend, works so we could watch her last concert with the kids there before she moves on to other pursuits.  She was fighting back tears as she said goodbye to her students and their parents.  hough we had to slip out before we got to give her a hug, she stopped by on her way home to let us know how much our presence had meant to her.  She said she also really appreciated that I understand how difficult goodbyes can be, especially when they involve children you’ve come to care for deeply.       
     This is an excerpt from Laura’s FB status that evening: “… I was reminded recently…that teaching is so very personal. I am the vessel to inspire thinking and learning and questions. I offer myself to my kids. Regardless of their age or the material we are exploring together, it is a personal journey. And I find that the more vulnerable, honest and present I am, the more I risk embarrassment... the more memorable and successful the learning.”

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To Listen and Be Someone who understands… The gifts of active listening, genuine concern, and true compassion are some of the most valuable ones we can offer one another.  I have a hard time describing how loved I feel when someone cares enough to listen to what I’m thinking and feeling, asks questions, clarifies, and shows that they want to walk with me even when my journey is leading me through a dark valley or a foggy forest.  Lord, help us to be better listeners, so that You are able to work in and through us to love others and bring forth the light and hope of Your Presence within them.   

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Excellent Advent Advice Reflection Series

Part I: Stay Awake 
Part II: Seek Him Who Seeks You
Part III: Hold on to Hope
Part IV: Celebrate the Season
Part V: Rejoice and Be Glad!  “Sometimes life is pure joy!” is what’s written on one of the mugs at my mom’s house with a drawing of Snoopy dancing on the front.  When I was a baby, my Godmother Marcy decided I looked a bit like Snoopy’s fine feathered sidekick, Woodstock, because my hair would stick straight up, so that was one of my nicknames back then.  We had some really fun times as kids.
     When I think of pure, unbridled joy, I often think of children at play, singing, dancing, running, laughing, exploring nature…

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Santa Claus Is Coming to Town?   A couple weekends ago our priest gave a sermon that included a reflection on the lyrics of the seasonal song he likes the least: “Santa Claus is Coming to Town.”  He doesn’t have a problem with the concept of Santa, who of course was inspired by Saint Nicholas, but he does find some verses of the well-known song to be a rather misleading. 
     “He’s making a list and checking it twice; He’s gonna find out who’s naughty and nice…
      He sees you when you’re sleeping.  He knows when you’re awake.
      He knows if you’ve been bad or good, so be good for goodness’ sake.
      Oh, you better watch out.  You better not cry.  You better not pout, I’m telling you why…”
     Upon closer examination, this seemingly inane song, sounds rather creepy.  Do we really want kids thinking that some stalker Santa is watching their every move? Does it make sense to make a bigger deal over having our kids go sit on some stranger’s lap and tell him what we want for Christmas than to marvel at the circumstances and love implied by Christ’s birth?  Yikes, let’s hope not!
     An article titled “The Flawed Theology of Naughty and Nice Lists,” by Amy Henry is an interesting look at the role of Santa, God, and children’s behavior reflect what parents teach and how kids perceive things. 
     Interestingly enough, I spent many years thinking of God as more of a harsh judge or stalker Santa making a list of everything I did wrong.  I’m grateful that our God is a just God, but also the One who is love and mercy itself.  If someone’s going to watch my every move, then I’d prefer it be someone who loves me unconditionally.

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O Christmas Tree, O Christmas Tree!  Last night, we gathered at my mom’s house to enjoy  one of our favorite home-cooked meals as a family,  then decorate the Christmas tree.  This year Mom and Theresa were the only ones who went to get the tree.  Yet again, we have a really nice live tree decorated with little colored lights.  With Christmas music playing and while sipping on cups of hot tea, we began pulling out the ornaments from a number of boxes.  Our favorites to put on the tree are those we’ve made over the years, store bought ones that we’ve hung on our tree since we were little, and those with a certain sentimental value.  Mom brought out a few of the Christmas photo collages she’d made a while back.  For me, seeing the pictures surfaced some of the more difficult memories I have from Christmas past.  Suffice it to say that we rarely, if ever, had a Hallmark holiday.  Our family’s been through quite a lot over the years, yet some of our most treasured traditions have remained the same. 
     What are your favorite memories of celebrating Christmas when you were a kid?  Who’s someone for whom the holidays might be lonely or particularly difficult this year?  What will you do to bring them some holiday cheer?   

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