Tuesday, December 30, 2014

The Twelve Days of Christmas and My True Love

The Twelve Days of Christmas is more than just a catchy song.  It’s a rhythmic reminder that the Christmas season lasts longer than just one day.  Yes, you read that correctly!  The Christmas season begins on December 25 and goes until the evening of January 6th.  So it's perfectly fine to keep wish people a Merry (insert the correct day here) day of Christmas right up to the Feast of the Epiphany.

Some sources say this popular song was originally written to help young people learn the catechism at a time when it was prohibited to practice Catholicism in England, either publicly or privately.  The punishments for adhering to the faith of the Church ranged from imprisonment to torture and/or death.  Naturally, those determined to preserve the sacred had to be more subversive and creative in passing on the teachings of Christ.  

Whether or not that was the initial intent for the song or just a myth developed over time, the current rendition and interpretation does include elements of good catechesis.  As you probably already guessed, the “True Love” who does the giving is God.  We as in all of God's children are the "me" who are given all of these riches of the faith.   

Here’s a simple summary from CathFamily to help you remember the song and what it can stand for from a Christian perspective: 


   Along with an explanation of each gift, this article includes ways to celebrate each of the twelve days of Christmas with family or friends.  All of the suggestions are practical, fun and don't require spending any money or acquiring any livestock.      

In case you have forgotten the lyrics (and because I like a good laugh), here's a hilarious skit version of the classic carol:


Monday, December 29, 2014

Laughing Together Series (Vol. 3) Gag Gifts for Kevin's Birthday, Coast Guard Issues, and Personalized Pens

In 1998, my mom, sisters, and I expressed our birthday wishes for Kevin with a few gifts.  We gave him a notepad that said, “Experience enables us to recognize a mistake when we make it again.”  I gave him a little wooden box with a star cut out of the lid.  I colored it with markers, put three shiny tugboat stickers below the star, and filled the box with little papers. 

That summer my sisters and I would tell someone to be quiet by saying, “I’ve got a whole box of Shh! with your name on it!”  Kevin had heard us use this many times, so I wrote Shh! on several pieces of notebook paper, cut them up, wrote his name on the decorated wooden box, and gave it to him.  He was very amused. 

Our useful gift, or one that at least appeared to have practical value, was a magnet with the numbers of the Coast Guard.  We told him we’d included it so he could call and get the coordinates of the sunken tugboat he still claimed existed.  He’d been disappointed by the Coast Guard in the past, and we’d joked about how much time they spend at local donut shops.  Later we confessed that the phone number on the magnet was really for Dunkin Donuts, not the Coast Guard.  He thought that was even funnier.

We also gave him a set of ballpoint pens with his name on them.  He took this as an indication that he should be writing me.  This was a message I wanted to convey, but I’m sure wasn’t what my mom was thinking when she bought them.  He apologized numerous times for not writing me back.  He explained he didn’t know what to say.  I forgave Kevin and told him his father had written me one of the nicest letters I’d ever received in response to the one I’d sent him.  Of course, this didn’t make Kevin think he was off the hook.

Click here to read Vol. 1 and/or Vol 2.

Tuesday, December 23, 2014

Joy to the World: How Christ’s Coming Changed Everything (And Still Does)

This is a perfect book to read if you want to embrace the true meaning and significance of Christ becoming flesh and dwelling among us.  

Throughout Joy to the World: How Christ’s Coming Changed Everything (And Still Does), biblical scholar Scott Hahn includes thought-provoking insights into the culture at the time when Mary gave birth in a barn, placed their firstborn son in a feeding trough, and watched in awe as shepherds and wise men came to pay Him homage. Hahn says that: "Christmas is, for me, the joy and the love that passed between a young woman and the child who had been placed in her arms" (p. 6)

Combined with the wisdom of theologians across the ages and some of the author’s own personal encounters while visiting Bethlehem, we’re given a rich context for the arrival of the long-awaited Emanuel, “God with us.”

I love how adept Hahn is at putting readers right into the heart of the story.  He gives a new perspective to Scripture passages many have memorized or tend to glaze over because they’ve become so familiar.  He describes Mary and Joseph’s heritage, the circumstances of Christ’s birth, and explains how the early years of Jesus’ life fulfilled the prophesies of old about the Savior of the world.

The wonderful story he shares about his visit to the Holy Land with his daughter captures precisely what the season is about and how we can go from being listless and bored, to feeling present, alert, needed, and appreciated by the presence of just one person.  So often we’re closed off to yet another list of “important” facts or statistics, but when we see a real human need before us, we are inspired to do what we can to meet it. 

If this season is about a person who lived 2000 years ago and has no real influence on our lives today, then it might make sense to spend a little time going over the evidence and history of Christ’s life and then calling it a day.  But that’s not the case.  We are invited to encounter the person of Jesus Christ who is just as present today as He was in Mary’s womb for nine months and on the day of his birth in a little backwater town with no accommodations available that had only one star. 

We don’t have to travel a long way to connect with the love and light, hope and joy, miracles and possibilities that were made flesh when God came to dwell among us.  If we’re able to grasp even the smallest ray of light revealed through the birth of the Messiah, then everything in and around us changes.  

First-time parents prepare for the arrival of their child without being able to fathom all the ways, big and small, in which their newborn will transform their lives.  In the same way, the deeper into the mystery of new life and God’s will we allow ourselves to go, the greater the awe and profound reverence we experience.  The more complete the metanoia will be in, through, and around us. 

Complacency seems ridiculous, if not impossible, when we begin to understand the magnitude of this miracle and the implications of it for all of time and eternity.  If the Christmas story has become quaint, small or too familiar to be inspiring or life-changing, I recommend reading Joy to the World to reconnect with the celestial scope and hope of the Incarnation. 


I received a free copy of this book from Blogging for Books in exchange for an honest review.  For more information or to start reading Joy to the World now, click here.

Monday, December 22, 2014

Best Christmas Books, Traditions, & Fave Posts

Triage for Christmas Correspondence is my solution to sending everyone we know or have ever known a Christmas card with our names signed at the bottom.

We don't have kids, and neither of us really want photos of us circulating around the country via snail mail.  We are grateful for any cards and/or photos we receive.

Please try not to be offended if you don't fit the qualifications to be on our short list.  Once you read them, you'll be relieved you didn't make the list!

I had fun writing this series, a stroll down memory lane, and one that I could add a lot more to (and probably will, eventually).  

Something to think about as you're moving the elf from shelf to shelf and trying to get your kids to behave better while hopped up on lots of extra sugar. Santa Claus is Coming?
That Elf Upon the Shelf, I Will Talk to Him Myself



Making the Best of Where You Are and What You Have Now:

Christmas Plays
Christmas Play Spectacular at Little Sisters of the Poor
Rejoice and Be Glad

5 Great Nonfiction Books about the True Meaning and Significance of Christmas:

Thursday, December 11, 2014

Evangelii Gaudium The Joy of the Gospel

Genuine joy is contagious in the best possible way.  When we have good news, we look forward to sharing it with others in person, over the phone, in a letter, an e-mail, a text, a Tweet, a Facebook message, a blogpost...so they can celebrate with us. 
     
A marriage engagement, new baby, new job, a long-awaited conversion, another life saved, a loved one who is healed…are all exciting developments we want to shout from the rooftops.     
     
We have the best Good News there is: God is with us and in us.  He became man, suffered, died, and rose again that we might live life to its fullest.  Our time on Earth isn’t all there is.  Because of the Lord’s infinite love and perfect plan for our salvation, we are invited to spend all eternity with our Creator, Savior, and Father.  It doesn’t get any better than that.
     
In his Apostolic Exhortation Evangelii Gaudium (aka The Joy of the Gospel), Pope Francis expounds upon the advantages of sharing the faith with a spirit of praise and rejoicing.  In a tone and with suggestions reminiscent of St. Francis of Assisi, our pope tells us we are called to reach out to the poor, elderly, outcasts, those who are marginalized or on the fringes of society in our own towns and around the world with the love of Christ. 
     
Doing what the Lord calls us to do, carrying out His will, taking care of the people He’s placed in our lives, and growing closer to Jesus are what bring us true and lasting joy in life.  Who better than a humble man from Latin America, who recognizes we each have in us a spark of God that is beautiful and unique, to write a proposition for a renewed evangelization? 
     
The best testimony of how to evangelize joyfully can be seen in the way Pope Francis lives the Gospel each day.  Whether he is washing someone’s feet on Holy Thursday, calling someone he’s never met to share his condolences, or rallying the youth, he illustrates how serving others, compassion, and relationships are essential to missionary work. 
     
There are great need and suffering all around us.  Many of us have a number of gifts and resources we can use to help others have their most basic needs met.  Are we willing to open our eyes to what is happening in our families, our neighborhoods, our cities, our country, our world, and allow God to transform us to reach out and take action?  If we are, then we’re ready to participate in the new evangelization.          
     
We are invited to be as cheerful and enthusiastic in our discovery and expression of God’s love as we would be if we had a surprise visit from one of our favorite people on the planet.  Hugs, I’ve missed you, I love you are all part of the effervescent greeting.  You feel your heart leap simply being in a dear one’s presence.    
     
This past spring I served on a Cursillo Women’s team with a great group.  One of the women on the team lost not one, but two loved ones during our time in formation.  She made a huge impression on me when she quoted this passage from The Gospel of Joy in her talk: “An evangelizer must never look like someone who has just come back from a funeral!” If anyone could justifiably be a little grumpy or down, she qualified, but that’s not what she did. 
     
What's more, she witnessed to me this aspect of the exhortation and included it in her talk:  “Let us recover and deepen our enthusiasm… And may the world of our time, which is searching, sometimes with anguish, sometimes with hope, be enabled to receive the good news not from evangelizers who are dejected, discouraged, impatient or anxious, but from ministers of the Gospel whose lives glow with fervor, who have first received the joy of Christ.”
     
I finished reading The Joy of the Gospel for the second time in mid-November.  The first time I’d read it was when my mom let me have the copy she’d printed out to read.  It is just as uplifting the second time as it was the first. 
     
This go-round I was more aware of how difficult it is for me to grasp and exude the sort of hope Pope Francis shows is necessary to draw people closer to Christ.  For much of my life, I’ve taken a very legalistic, rule-oriented approach to things—one that by itself isn’t likely to attract or interest anyone in the Catholic faith.  My husband Kevin’s better at joy than I usually tend to be. 
     
I find it true poetic justice that while I was rereading The Joy of the Gospel my husband was listening to The United States Catholic Catechism on CD.  Kevin’s not a voracious reader like I am, and he certainly didn’t grow up with a penchant toward knowing and following the rules, like me, so this is definitely a Holy Spirit inspired activity that’s bulking up his knowledge of the faith in which he was raised.  We’ve both been led to grow in areas the Lord knew we needed help with, and hopefully, we’ll be better prepared to live out the joy of the Gospel.

I highly recommend reading and/or rereading The Joy of the Gospel.  I received a free copy of the book from Blogging for Books in exchange for an honest review.  For more information or to get your own copy of The Joy of the Gospel, click here.
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